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The script is written

If the mother needs to son always consulted with her, always needed her, she is received and will be happy. But will the lucky son? Alas, no. The program for the future mother instilled in him from earliest childhood. Psychologists call this suggestion messages. This fleeting abandoned it, which sinks into the memory at the subconscious level and determine the future behavior of the child. Женщины с повышенным уровнем тревожности, которые страшатся одиночества, могут говорить сыновьям: «Сейчас я о тебе забочусь, а когда ты вырастешь, ты будешь обо мне заботиться…», «Я знаю, ты хороший сын, ты никогда меня не бросишь…», «Даже, когда женишься, ты меня не забудешь…» и в результате получить вечных холостяков, которые будут жить с мамой до самой ее смерти, но даже и потом не смогут жениться, потому что не будут представлять себе жизни рядом с каким-то другим человеком.

A different fate will be a boy, my mother said: "You grow up, you will have his own family – his wife, children … If I can, I will help you …" Addressing these letters, my mother prepares her son a different scenario of life, where he plays the role of self – mature person who would not hide behind my mother's opinion to gray hair.

Male education

American psychologists advise mothers that raise one's sons, to pay little money nice guys, students, to those on weekends playing with their boys in baseball, cycling, walking in parks, and thus involve them in men's interest, entertainment, male, masculine style life. We attract high school students and students to bebisitterstvu not accepted. But the whole idea – to attach the boy to a male society – should take over. Make sure that the son spent some time with your friends and relatives of the male. Let him fishing with them in the campaign, let them look like they are repairing cars, or helping them to repair the fences and sheds on the dacha. Men's manner of speaking, buying at the outpouring of specific phrases, gestures – all this is easy to learn, even the heroes of films. More difficult to learn to behave as a leading man, because my mom unknowingly be pushing his son to the women's behavior. For example, a mother is difficult to accept that the boy must go through a period of fighting. When the son insulted, the pope usually believe that offenders should be given a rebuff, and begging my mother not to fight and negotiate. Of course, in the adult community taken to solve conflicts peacefully, but young adults have to go through a fight to learn to defend themselves physically, or peers would treat him as a weakling and a child's low self-esteem emerge.

Reasonable steps

As my mother in her relations with her son, so he grew weak man who is afraid to take responsibility?

• Follow-up for themselves, not whether it is to program the child to eternal dependence on the views of mom.

From its earliest days to instill in him confidence that he can, that he will succeed (and independently lace up boots, and solve the puzzle in mathematics, and to obtain the discharge of skiing).

• To give him the opportunity to do everything myself. Clearly, bustling mother, who must earn money, and housekeeping, faster and easier to do most everything for a small child. Only then will soon discover that the boy could no longer wants to do himself, he realized that he was more comfortable, when all it does for the mother.

• Discuss with them not only their own problems (what color to hang curtains in the living room, painted her hair or not), but also to talk about his interests: fights, computer games, shooter, models of racing cars.

• Give to the sports section, where the coach would be a man. Even my mother's admirers here can help. Looking more closely to him, the boy might try on character traits of one or the other.

Happy-end

And yet, as my mother would be wise to themselves or led, a boy who grew up without strong male hands, you get more emotional, more "feminine" than his age, who grew up next to my father. After all, the Pope behaved sons, strong and tough, do not allow them to cry, to fear, there was much to show their feelings. In what way will turn heightened emotionality and sensitivity "mother's son" in his future life – plus or minus? Here, sociologists make an interesting prediction: it turns out, women today tend to choose husbands gipermuzhestvennyh representatives of the stronger sex, but men were more flexible, and sensitive. And just with the boys grown mums, they will be easier to find a common language, perhaps it is such a family would be happier.

Up tremor

Those who once saw people suffering from Parkinson's disease, and never with anything it does not confuse. Typically, the disease starts with shaking and stiffness in one arm, gradually spreading to all extremities. In humans, disturbed gait (turns into a shuffling, mincing), it (became slurred, nasal), changes facial expressions (it is substantially depleted), handwriting (moving in small, shivering). Over the years ballism progresses, taking more and more severe. There comes a time when the suffering of people can not maintain itself, the problem becomes all: dress, bring to mouth glass of water, use a toilet … In practice: if the disease is left untreated or treated incorrectly, can be confined to bed.

Black substance

Catching the beginning of the disease is virtually impossible. Crafty disease is starting to show, when a person already afflicted 80% of the neurons in the so-called substantia nigra, concentrated in the brain stem. This name they got from the large clusters of neurons with a high content of the pigment melanin. When these cells become smaller, there is an imbalance between connected with each other systems, transmitting excitation in brain structures responsible for movement. The resulting imbalance distorts the "team" coming from the cerebral cortex, resulting in long accustomed, it would seem, the very nature of programmed suddenly begin to go hawking. In addition to motor disturbances in Parkinson's disease are frequent and so-called autonomic disorders: change in appetite, salivation, activity of the intestines (constipation), frequency of urination.

Starting mechanism

Run process can be dangerous things: encephalitis, cerebral vascular pathology, carbon monoxide poisoning or manganese, uncontrolled use of neuroleptics, cranial trauma, severe infectious disease or stress. But the genetic nature of Parkinson's disease are unfounded. Like the other: one time among neurologists view was that the main cause of this disease in old age – atherosclerosis. But subsequent neurophysiological studies have refuted this hypothesis. There are, however, forms of disease that develop after a few strokes, but they are rare.

Output is

Treatment ballism – everything is not easy, Current drugs only facilitate the patients, but completely from the disease do not cure. In addition, over time, the action of drugs is reduced and even large doses of them stop to help. Not to mention the fact that some patients with Parkinson's disease to medication are simply not sensitive! Fortunately, the solution was found. Came to the aid of neurologists … neurosurgery. There were so-called destructive operations in the subcortical structures of the brain to interrupt the flow of pathological impulses that cause tremors and other unpleasant manifestations of Parkinson's disease. Другая и на сегодняшний день самая перспективная хирургиче­ская методика лечения дрожательного паралича заключается во «вживлении» специальных сверхтонких микроскопи­ческих электродов в мозг, способных стимулировать плохо работающие под­корковые структуры, после чего боль­шая часть больных возвращается к нор­мальной жизни, надолго, а то и навсег­да, забывая о недавнем кошмаре.

Extraction winner

Animals nobody reads lectures on "How to treat a female" or "How to choose a worthy husband. Just with the onset of the breeding season "grooms" are beginning to rapidly offer sexual services. At the same time his looks, smells and sounds not only do they attract the "bride", but provoke other male at clarifying the relationship – these ritual battles needed to "ladies" did not enter into relationship with anyone, and could choose the most powerful, agile and aggressive partner. For it was he who would be the most "strong link", will be able to pass on to future children the most valuable genes, and let the loser cries – he's generally not allowed to procreate! Natural selection is severe but fair – marriage tournaments even the most toothed predators always go according to strict rules, their purpose – not to kill or cripple the opponent, but only to prove their superiority.

The man, of course, has gone beyond its "smaller brothers" – had come into play and weapons, and prohibited methods. Fortunately, modern men can barely find out the relationship with their fists or swords, are increasingly possible to observe the competition of intelligence or tight wallets.

Himself an enviable cavalier can be recognized not only in fighting but also by their appearance – it should be a large, perfectly proportioned, brightly colored, have a loud voice and very distinct gender. And yet it would be nice if this male showed interest and other females – is another corroboration of the correctness of choice. So the desire of women to get rough macho or a popular singer – not a whim, and the imperative of instinct.

Nature has done to people one more gift – not only our men can and want to make love all year round (it's just typical of many animals), but also a beautiful half ready to answer them to reciprocate at any time, not just the pitiful few days a year. When the lady-monkeys ovulate and it is ready to mate – it immediately becomes the property of the entire male community: her breasts and genitals swell behavior and the smell is changing dramatically. The women, of course, also have the time, the most fertile, but it is not obvious, not only for the Cavaliers, but also for herself. So, sex it is possible and the desire at any time, and seek its favor (gently or vigorously fight to care) need to constantly!

Lifetime property

Thus, the result is achieved, the fortress was taken, fertilization occurred. In the human version – Having sounded the march of Mendelssohn and signed a marriage contract. Now you can have a rest from the stormy passions … so it happens … the representatives of those species, whose children from birth to independently produce their own food. Chicken, for example, feeding chicks is not to teach her brood to seek sustenance can be alone and, moreover, chickens are omnivorous – that it turns out that the cock she is no longer needed and its freedom, it does not infringe. In those cases where the offspring rearing efforts are needed both parents, begins to appear relevant to their marriage partners, as property, and step right – step left is to immediately escape and severely punished.

Men actively insist on sole possession of the body of the woman he loved, the very thought of the possibility of its physical betrayal for them intolerable.

Some scholars explain it so – a man instinctively afraid that the genetic father of the child may not be it (the world's males of some species of animals killed pups born not from them). Women, by contrast, can forgive her favorite carnal sins, but very afraid of his emotional attachment to another – they would rather put up with visits to the wife of "moth" than "swallow" the most innocent romance with a colleague or a platonic affection for the former classmate.

Women's kind of possessiveness is the mating instinct – every person of the weaker sex, regardless of nationality, education and nature, seeks not only to seize liked "object", but will certainly consolidate its victory stamp in the passport. Often, the instinct of her marriage is in contradiction with the principle of selecting the strongest males – it is known that most willingly marry and become exemplary husbands did not the heroes that attract the attention of most women.

Jealousy – not a vice, but not a gift

The feeling of jealousy, many times and in such detail "chewed" in poems and novels – the manifestation and continuation of possessiveness. It is familiar to nearly everyone, only 5% of people admit that they had never experienced, but at 15-20% jealousy takes such forms that their thoughts and behavior resemble ravings of a madman. Women are more jealous than men, but better able to conceal their emotions. The most fierce Othello in skirts "- young wives and mistresses in particular, 90% of which are insanely jealous of her cavalier for the lawful wife. But the mother of a family with experience are not so much concerned about this issue – they are often perceived her husband as an additional child and are willing to forgive him the small (and sometimes large) pranks on the side.

Men manifestations of jealousy can be very rough and stormy, and even the most even-tempered, may not behave poorly, repeating the path of the great Moor – strangle her first, then We will understand! Often a "trigger mechanism" become their own "sins" jealous (not only real, but imaginary! ) Or stories of wife (husband) on pre-marital adventures – this is exactly the time bomb is ticking, which can blow up the most durable marriage. According to Russian scientists, for 20% of divorces is just jealousy, although the formal reason is any other.